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I'm tired of doing things and regretting them after, but I just can't seem to stop that from happening. I'm pathetic. I keep on saying things, then wake up one day trying to take it back. Hayy.

They say girls don't always mean what they say, that's somehow true. But it doesn't mean we don't mean everything that we say. We just want to find someone who can understand us, even if we don't reveal every single bit of our feelings. Some girls shy away from even trying to express what they feel, scared of things that might come from that. But when a girl tells you that they love you, believe it, cause it's pretty much true. Though there are different kinds of love, still, it's love. And don't ever let a girl feel she's not special, it can bring her whole self down.

Guys, here's something to think about. When you like a girl, it doesn't men that you have to tell her. But if you decide to do so, stick with it. And don't rely on words to pass the message, show how you're really sincere. You can't show a girl you like her when you keep on flirting with other girls, and keep away from her girl friends if you don't want trouble in the future. :)) A girl needs love and care. And if you want her to trust you, show that you trust her. Show her respect so she would also respect you.

One fault both girls and boys can do is having a rebound. For example, the boy breaks up with a girl. The girl is crushed. There's another boy who likes the girl and finds the chance to court the girl because of the way she is right now. The girl feels thankful for the boy for taking care of her at her time of need and gets together with him. Basically, we can think that the girl got together with the boy is because he was there when she needed care the most, she may love him, but not in the way he loved the guy that crushed her. And it would be unfair to the girl because she's not true to herself, unfair to the boy because he's with a girl with a different boy in her heart, and unfair to both cause they'll just get hurt. But I don't mean that this is what always happens, it could be that the new boy is the one for the girl, I'm just saying this does happen.

If ever you want to be the one you like, be sure you don't feel anything for someone else anymore. Cause that would hurt a lot of people. Get over the ones you liked (emphasis on the past tense) and be faithful to the one right now. Jealousy hurts and plants seeds of doubt, so don't ever give a chance for jealousy to arise. Remember, if you truly like someone, you're not supposed to like anyone but her, therefore, no need to be all gushy-gushy and touchy-touchy with others. If ever you choose to say "i love you", mean it. DON'T ever say it without meaning it, ever. And don't keep on giving promises and saying things when obviously you care for others, cause it's plain annoying. :P


Since I'm talking about these things already (and in keeping pace with my article), let's talk about loooooooove. :)) So, okay..

First love. They say it never dies, and I have an idea on why that's so. Here's a quote: "Love is giving someone the permission to break your heart but trusting them not to". So, first love. It's the first time you'll fall in love, and let your heart be broken. If I'm right, and I'm not so sure with this, when you first fall in love, you're ready to give what it takes, intoxicated by the scent of love, not bothering what you'll feel when it fails. So, what happens when it fails? So intoxicated with falling inlove, you never got the chance to build protection for yourself, no barriers, no guards, no walls to shield your heart. And that's why it hurts so much. One second your blushing so much it looks like you're going to pop, the next second you're crying rivers. Our young hearts can't be that sure. So, what is love now? Is it feeling the pain of emptiness after the river of tears dry up? Is it feeling numb and not caring about anything anymore? What is it? I don't know. But I'm pretty much sure that after the "love", you're left with scars and a pretty much broken heart. It would be hard to let go, after giving everything just for that, and it can even go to the point of desperate actions to get back together. It's hard to forget that kind of pain, the pain of crashing down after being in cloud 9 for the first time. And that's my theory on how you can't forget your first love.

So, I'm not a love doctor, I don't know and understand much about this. But this is what I believe. It might be true for some, or not, but love isn't that defined anyway. I look at it my way, and you look at it in yours. But just remember, love isn't just a game. Feelings are not toys. And "love" can do so much, may it be good, or bad.

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